This is just an observation that I’m kind solidifying in my head. When individuals (including myself) pay only partial interest to a subject, in this case watching a movie, it brings a whole different perspective to the viewer. And that is ‘interest’. My wife paid very little interest in watching The Brass Teapot. She concluded, quickly, the movie was stupid.
I’ve done this myself. If at first I don’t have an interest, I really don’t pay attention to the film. Then that furthers the idea in my mind, the movie is bad. I ‘try’ to no longer have the Ipad with me when watching movies. If I deviate even just a little, and start looking at other things, the experience of movie watching is diminished.
I’ve seen my son do this consistently and while I don’t want to say he represents youth habits of today, he seems to capture that short attention span mentality. When he lived with me (he’s now married), we would go to the movies and I swear every movie we say, he said was great. That’s because he was interested and the movie had his full attention. He’s also watched movies with me at home and when the phone consumes 75% of activities while watching a movie, he craps on the film. It was OK. It was bad.
I’m back to being old school. If I want to watch a film. It’s just me and the film. No talking. No Iphone, not games, not texting, etc.
It all comes back to multi-tasking. It can’t be done… not effectively. If you’re interested in seeing a movie… watch it. Put all other things aside.
Simple