yeah not trying to get preachy or anything...and I get the tribute because my opinion on someone doing that and how other people might react and then need to heal are totally different.

it's important to try and help those people deal with the loss...to come together...so it's a great thing.

it took me YEARS to even listen to Nirvana...and trust me I am not comparing the two guys as people....but I mean it went from a band a I really liked....to something that was just completely ruined for me...it's impossible for me to really listen to it...and not think it's all been totally tainted by the "end" of the story.

sucks man...Seau should have been helped...I don't understand why his friends didn't do a serious intervention for the guy.

I had a friend a few years back...and he and his wife split up...I mean we all went into IMMEDIATE action because we all knew he wasn't the most stable guy....and the reality was, we needed to find him immediately....and make sure someone was with him....no one I knew had the resources to go as far as Seau's crowd could ever go....so it bothers me that he didn't help himself...and then where were all the people he'd known the last 20 years....No one was concerned...no one thought the guy needed help.

I just find that very hard to believe/

but people slip through the cracks....he might have been one of those people....just happened he was a multi millionaire with a lot of rich friends.

all the resources....no communication.